A scandalous life of a man that has it all.

“How to Organize a Sex Party” is a provocative true story about decades of throwing sex parties in New York City, a guide to living your best life without apology, and true love.

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From the book

"I was texting with a prostitute I was dating about a restaurant reservation while she was on a plane with a client."

"The people of Hawaii they have Nobu now."

"'Thank you,' said the stranger on the opposite side of the elevator."

About the author

Hiding in plain sight.

For now, the author of “How to Throw a Sex Party” hides in plain sight, having a boring life mixed with the routine organizing of one of the most fun sex parties in New York City. By day, he moves through work, corporate America, and family life with a steady hand and an unreadable face; elsewhere, he makes art out of desire, secrecy, and the strange beauty of wanting more. He is hiding, but not really hiding - not if you make the effort. To understand that world, you have to become part of it, step over the boundary from which there is no return. You cannot just watch; you have to participate. The book will be an invitation. All shall be revealed in time.

A scandalous life of a man that has it all.

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Hiding in plain sight.